I have two daddies (an awkward awkward bring your dad to school day)

So here's a Q. When Gay parents have kids, and the kid yells for dad who runs? Is there some sort of gay lingo that the family uses to differentiate between daddy#1 and daddy #2? or do the kids just say dad and uncle jerry?
Or does the one that takes it called mom?

Thoughts on my mind.... Classic American family with adopted Asian below.

Someone looks a little pissy.
Do you think he's pondering who to disappoint when bring your father to school comes up?
awkward..
You think walking in on YOUR parents having sex was bad.